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AA purports to be open to anyone, as it is stated in Tradition Tree, "The only requirement for AA membership is a desire to stop drinking," but it isn't open to everyone. It's open only to those who are willing to publicly declare themselves to be alcoholics or addicts and who are willing to give up their inherent right of independence by declaring themselves powerless over addictive drugs and alcohol, as stated in Step One, "We admitted we are powerless over alcohol- that our lives had become unmanageable.

- Chris Prentiss, The Alcoholism and Addiction Cure

Every person in the AA program who's successful is living proof that he or she does have power over addictive drugs and alcohol- the power to stop.

- Chris Prentiss, The Alcoholism and Addiction Cure

Aa is for animals, friends, not food. We don't eat our friends. They would find it quite rude!

- Ruby Roth, V Is for Vegan: The ABCs of Being Kind

Writers cleave together like a demonic AA group - we are singularly able to dance with each other's devils...

- J.D. Young

Like most people who decide to get sober, I was brought to Alcoholics Anonymous. While AA certainly works for others, its core propositions felt irreconcilable with my own experiences. I couldn't, for example, rectify the assertion that "alcoholism is a disease" with the facts of my own life.The idea that by simply attending an AA meeting, without any consultation, one is expected to take on a blanket diagnosis of "diseased addict" was to me, at best, patronizing. At worst, irresponsible. Irresponsible because it doesn't encourage people to turn toward and heal the actual underlying causes of their abuse of substances.I drank for thirteen years for REALLY good reasons. Among them were unprocessed grief, parental abandonment, isolation, violent trauma, anxiety and panic, social oppression, a general lack of safety, deep existential discord, and a tremendous diet and lifestyle imbalance. None of which constitute a disease, and all of which manifest as profound internal, mental, emotional and physical discomfort, which I sought to escape by taking external substances.It is only through one's own efforts to turn toward life on its own terms and to develop a wiser relationship to what's there through mindfulness and compassion that make freedom from addictive patterns possible. My sobriety has been sustained by facing life, processing grief, healing family relationships, accepting radically the fact of social oppression, working with my abandonment conditioning, coming into community, renegotiating trauma, making drastic diet and lifestyle changes, forgiving, and practicing mindfulness, to name just a few. Through these things, I began to relieve the very real pressure that compulsive behaviors are an attempt to resolve.

- Noah Levine, Refuge Recovery: A Buddhist Path to Recovering from Addiction

Times change and discoveries are made that render earlier techniques and approaches less effective. Change is inevitable. To remain rigid when the whole world is changing and advancing is to invite misfortune. The AA program in particular is challenged with an opportunity of unprecedented magnitude.

- Chris Prentiss, The Alcoholism and Addiction Cure

My car broke down. Instead of AAA, I called AA by mistake. They could only move my car twelve steps.

- Jerry Snider, Buddy Bloom Wildflower: A Tale of Struggle and Celebration

Yet, Step 2 and AA spirituality is about nothing if it isn’t about faith in God. Many good reasons exist why AA makes a distinction between religion and spirituality, but a denial of God is not one of them. – p. 127

- Ray A., Practice These Principles: Living the Spiritual Disciplines and Virtues in 12-Step Recovery to Achieve Spiritual Growth, Character Development, and Emotional Sobriety

FEAR stands for face everything and recover – Old AA saying

- Stephen King, Doctor Sleep

Going to AA helped me to see that there were other people who had problems that had found a way to talk about them and find relief and humor through that.

- Carrie Fisher

You focus on telling stories,
we do everything else.