The greatest way to overcome resentment of past is by gratitude of present. What you have, your friends your family, the things that you have overcome but most importantly what you plan to do now. Self Actualization states that we can have what ever we want in the future by acting as if we already have it now.

- Matthew Donnelly

To achieve self actualization, do good things for other people that you would want to be done onto yourself

- Meg Cabot